My first gay love
Do you remember your first time? Your first exposure with another guy? Your first story with another gay guy?
It's that first moment of total pleasure when everything else disappears, and those weird “feelings” suddenly make complete perception. Suddenly, everything falls into place: you're not a freak of nature or “different”, simply experiencing the simple joys that you were born to enjoy.
For most gay guys, our first gay experience is usually a moment of revelation and clarity that eventually leads to our own acceptance and the urge to tell the world. For others, it's a complete disaster that we prefer to forget… although one thing's for sure, you will never truly forget it!
In this post, we asked a few of our friends from around the nature to share their first gay experience with us, whether it was a first-time gay k&#;ss, their first gay love story, or something a bit more spicy(!)… and we've set it all out right here. You'll also want to check out our own love story of how we first met each other.
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Dad died when I was six. The rabbi who lived in the apartment below took over for him. I’m sure he wanted to do Mom. They packed us off to an evil Hasidic summer camp where everyone made fun of us because we didn’t know their crazy prayers. My brother was four. We would secretly join in the woods, hug each other and cry. We couldn’t understand why our father died and our mother sent us to this terrible place. I learned to hate all religion and still do.
Mom was a dark-haired, curvaceous looker, juicy, and in her prime. She liked sex but decided that all men had to pay for it. The butcher brought steaks; the florist, flowers; the bagel man left fresh hot steaming bagels by our door every morning for months. Leon, the ice cream man left ice cream. My younger brother and I were quickly dispatched to fetch the stuff into the dwelling, so they couldn’t see Mom. And not to forget Abe, the jeweler, who brought, well, jewels. They all tried to obtain inside. Some did. When Mom met the man who brought it all, she married him.
We lived in Borough Park, in Brooklyn. Until I ran away, I thought eve
Advice for Your First Gay Date
Taking a right on Fletcher Operate on the eastside of Los Angeles, there’s a billboard with two male figures under a caption that reads, “Sorry, This Is My First Period Being Gay.” To this day, I have no clue what the billboard is advertising, but my friends and I quote it reflexively whenever we take Fletcher to the I There is something both deeply relatable and incredibly nonsensical about that phrase. The anxiety and insecurity that comes with your first sexual homosexual encounter is universal in the queer community, and yet the idea that “being gay” is something that can be activated in a single moment is absurd.
Your first queer date, whether that be in high institution or your late thirties, can feel daunting. At the time I started questioning my sexuality, I was working in the college library shelving books during the evening alter. As a hapless dork with anxiety, every occasion I was in the “queer theory section” (which was expansive in my liberal arts school), I would sit on the floor and read through book after book in the hopes that some gay savv