Why do men like blow jobs so much
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Many women misunderstand why their husbands want oral sex. Not just oral sex, but really any act that focuses primarily on male pleasure, like massage, manual or other non-intercourse stimulation, dirty talk, lingerie wearing, etc. Women feel that these desires or preferences mean that their husbands are (1) selfish and (2) mainly concerned with the physical or visual pleasure stemming from the act. Neither of these are correct, and empathetic why men fantasize about creature pleased is essential if you want to deeply understand your husband and improve your heartfelt (yes emotional, not just sexual) connection.
Men have been taught from an early age to be strong and not show their feelings, especially vulnerable feelings. They are told to &#;man up&#; and &#;suck it up&#; and not show any weakness. Many men take on a &#;workhorse&#; role, as I discuss here, and feel that their main value is in providing and achieving. They do not reflect anyone would love
The State of Oral Sex in America
Oral sex is just one way to give or receive pleasure, so why are there so many opinions, feelings, and stereotypes surrounding the topic? Because we&#;re human, of course. And humans and sex have a complex relationship, to state the least!
You may hold noticed that we don&#;t mind talking about sex at Bespoke Surgical. We believe that the more you know, the safer and better your trial will be! Which made us a bit curious: with such a contested topic such as oral sex, where do the opinions of Americans lie? How common is oral sex? How often undertake couples have oral sex? We decided to actions an original survey in order to find out what oral sex statistics in the United States look like.
As with many taboos, the preconceived notions and societal judgments surrounding oral sex are diminishing away. In Bespoke Surgical&#;s latest survey into American&#;s attitudes on sexual health, wellness and awareness, habit founder Dr. Evan Goldstein was interested in education more about the declare of oral sex in America.
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&#;Seriously&#; Why do guys like BJ?&#;
What is with the fascination surrounding BJ?
This article is not meant to be rude or offensive in any way. My aim is to help women own close, committed, thick and passionate relationships.
Part of achieving this is helping women understand more about men, what men want and why they need it.
I am not condoning casual sex or being promiscuous. I am also not aiming to tell women they have to give their man oral sex. Ultimately, this is a woman&#;s personal choice.
I condone mighty, committed and ardent relationships.
I support healthy relationships where each party does not blame or reject any part of their partner (we all have other and sometimes contradicting personalities inside of us).
I support relationships where they each understand how the masculine and feminine energies operate.
Understanding Men: Why Do Guys Like BJ?
Just as men sometimes hold difficulty understanding women, women have trouble understanding men. Here&#;s an example:
A lot of men don&#;t get why women say things they
22 Men Dish on the Hottest Oral Sex They’ve Ever Received
There are lots of great reasons to have guy friends, but one of the biggest ones is that they are amazing advice givers. Since you’re not digital dating them, they have no problem telling it exactly how it is—and from a dude’s perspective, no less. We decided to take advantage of this awesome relationship and question our guy friends to reveal the best oral sex they’ve ever gotten. Our logic? Armed with this info, you can try these moves out on your guy—and equip to, um, blow him away.
Have a Ball
“I care it when my girlfriend cups my balls as she is sucking on my penis. She holds them in one hand and occasionally gives them a squeeze. Working my balls and my penis at the same moment makes the entire sensation so much stronger. I nearly erupt!” —Ben, 30
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Butt Out!
“One of my favorite feelings in the society is when my girlfriend gives me a butt massage. So when she’s going down on me, she’ll occasionally reach both of her hands under my butt cheeks and start massagi